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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 26.06.2025 00:08

How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Making more friends is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

With a marketing degree, can I do a master’s in film production?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Andrew Tate or Nas Daily, who do you prefer more?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Does not procrastinate.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What types of jobs can you get in marketing?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Procrastinates a lot.

To a flat Earther, what's wrong with the idea that gravity is simply a force inherent to space which operates only in one dimension? Why do they go further and try to deny gravity rather than just saying it's different than physicists claim?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

What is the process of becoming an Evangelical preacher? Is attending seminary school necessary? How long does it typically take? Is it financially challenging?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What is one thing you've learned from life?

Do not set goals—set systems.

What I need from you?

That's it for today.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Living to your full potential is a goal.